Sorry not warm and fuzzy.....

Let's be clear that when you enter the office of a divorce lawyer you enter the lair of the lion. A divorce attorney is not a therapist and usually is not very good at warm and fuzzy. My advice is not usually tainted with niceties and sugar plums, I speak from the gut and tell it exactly like it is...no holds barred.

Yes, it can be frightening to hear the truth about your marital situation, but why would you want it any other way?  There are divorce attorneys who promise their clients the world and fill their head with unreasonable expectations which cannot be achieved, but they make their clients feel good. Unrealistically, feel good but  feel good none the less. Until the divorce is done, then the attorneys blame the judge, their adversary, the unfairness of the law, everyone but themselves because after all they made everyone feel good, all along the way.

When you come in to see me expect to get the truth, the good the bad and the ugly. Be prepared to listen to my advice and act upon it in the manner in which I request. Follow my advice to the letter and you will be successful. You will move on with your life and be a productive member of society a the end of your divorce. If however, your desire is to feel good about it all along the way, then make sure you have a therapist on retainer as well. They do warm and fuzzy....I do not.